I have just went in B737-800 to Palm Springs Int. The end was, maybe not embarrassing, but definitively not as smooth as I'd like. I was arriving to PSP on V137. Because of the mountains I've entered the valley at about 10'000 feet. I asked for visual approach and vectors for descent. Controller basically made me fly around the valley, I ended at sth like distant base for 13R at 5'000 (close to end of the valley) and cleared for visual app. I was at my maximum-drag configuration- full flight spoilers, gear down, flaps in amber bar for current speed. I should have slowed down by this point to circa 150knots and I'd probably make a nice approach. But I didn't

. I was at about 180knots and I was unable to descent for landing at approach speed (or reaching approach speed on short final). I figured if I made a circle over the airport and go back to final for 13R I'll be good with speed. Apparently I've been using some made-up phraseology as I had problems with communicating my intentions to controller at this point. I asked for sth like 'visual circle over the airport', which was not understood, then I precised that I want to do a "visual circle over the airport and go back for 13R', which still was apparently understandable only for me. At this point it stroked me that this essentially is a traffic pattern so asked for 'missed app and entering left traffic for 13R', for which I was cleared and finally landed fine.
So the question is what should I have done/said to communicate my intentions clearly. After this experience I'd say that it would be saying that i want to enter departure leg for left traffic at TPA. Right?
Could I have also asked for a 360deg turn while being too high on final?