Being so close to the VOR it was hard for me to work out where I was in relation to it. Wild needle swings when I tried to spin the obs to center the needle. Not to mention it not staying centered long enough for me to get anything from it. All that, along with flying the plane and talking on the radio, I finally gave up trying to figure out what was going on and asked for an explanation and a position report from ATC. Once he explained it, along with telling me what to tune the obs to,

The ground track can be seen here: http://peaware.pilotedge.net/flight.cfm?id=2447
Questions:
Is there anything I could have done in setting up the cockpit prior to departure with NAV1 and NAV2 to make it easier to know where I was than simply using just the one radio?
Should I have been prepared to join that airway from anywhere other than what I was given in the clearance? If so, any tips on the preparation.
Any tips for navigating so close to the VOR in relation to using the obs? Last night I found it useless. I was unable to use it and do everything else that needed to be done to fly the plane.
Thanks in advance for your help.