Well I know this group is partial to the X-Plane and from all research X-Plane as it relates to the flight dynamics is generally better than FSX. In my case I currently have a good deal invested in FSX, but I am looking at X-Plane.
I have also been looking at TrackIR5, but even with that I still believe I may still have issues on how FSX handles the flight dynamics with this precision flight in the pattern. The trim seems to be very sensitive and I have been having hard time with turns and almost nose diving. I have tried 172, 208 and Baron 58 of which I know is probably not the best, all with the same results.
There is one thing I did get from one of Keith's older videos is do some practicing to see how the plane handles in various situations, so I will keep at it and see if I can get this part nail down with out Auto Pilot.

Thanks again for the welcoming and thoughts on this question.